June may almost be over – but it’s not too late to talk about Internet safety.
Today the Iowa Internet Crimes Against Children Task Force unveiled a new website aimed at providing resources for parents in educating their children and even instructions on how to report potentially criminal activity on the Web. In 2009, the task force issued 80 search warrants and made 25 arrests.
While I am not a parent, I do spend a lot of time in classrooms and in the workplace educating others about online best practices. And the “Stranger Danger” concept needs a new millenium makeover. Most kids these days understand that talking to a stranger they meet in public can be dangerous. But in a world where a complete stranger is labeled as an online “friend,” we need to teach children that it doesn’t matter whether you’re having a face to face conversation, talking in an online chat room or sending text messages – a stranger is a stranger.
I think one of my friends has a really smart approach. She created Facebook accounts for her kids before they could even use a computer. Initially it was more of a placeholder, but then gradually she’s started to ask the kids their opinion on what profile picture to use or if they want to tell people about what they are doing. It’s a collaborative effort between her and the kids. And then eventually she can start to hand over the reigns. It’s already a natural thing for the kids to discuss social networking with their parents and when the first few potential problems come up, it will be something they can address together.
I think it’s important to keep a positive approach to social media, whether it’s rules for kids, or a company policy. For every rule about something you shouldn’t do, there should be a suggestion for something you should do. Parents can’t educate and protect unless they understand how social networking operates, how people consume and share information. And I think it’s the same for companies. If you’re going to make a policy for your employees regarding social networking, I think it needs to be a group effort, involving input from a variety of people with different online experience levels. The educational process needs to be a conversation that continues to evolve and progress.
Internet safety advocates often narrow in on children and online predators, which is an extremely important topic. But to me, online safety has a much broader definition. Regardless of age, we have to protect ourselves, our identities and reputations.
I was just chatting with Bob Bruce at WMT about geo-targeting and he challenged me with images of ax murderers showing up at a tweet-up.
When information leaves your possession whether it’s a tweet, e-mail or text message, it’s crucial that you understand what other people can do with that information and how it can be shared with others. In this case, I feel safe attending a tweet-up with 20 other people in a public place in daylight, but I’m not going to send a tweet informing the entire world that I’m sitting alone in my backyard. I think you can be transparent and open, but still protect yourself at the same time.
I think the hardest lesson for children and teens to grasp is the real impact of sharing information with even just a single person. Everyone’s heard horror stories about chat rooms or cyber-bullying. But more recently, stories are starting to surface about adults who have been fired for pictures or opinions posted on social networking sites.
I’ve said it before on this blog and I’ll say it again – nothing you post on the Internet is private. Photos can be shared, text messages and e-mails forwarded. No matter how strict your security settings, all it takes is a computer glitch to make that information public. And once you hit send/post, that picture or information can almost never truly be deleted.
This is the second time in a month that I’ve been on my social media soapbox. So I’m stepping down now. Stay safe out there.
Posted under Education, Web/Tech
This post was written by jjarvis on June 29, 2010









