Don’t draw any conclusions from the title. I am not getting married any time soon, but that doesn’t mean I’m not absorbed in wedding planning.
I will be involved in at least two weddings this summer, and I’m sure, will end up attending countless others. While weddings are a fabulous, meaningful occasion, the planning that goes into them gives me a migraine.
Even without being the bride, and only being part of the wedding party, there are still fittings and plenty of pre-ceremony activities to plan for. And even if you’re just attending the wedding, there are still gifts, RSVP’s and travel plans to keep track of. With weddings - planning is everything.
Yesterday I received a panicked SOS from one of the brides I am helping out. She doesn’t have anyone with experience nearby to help and not being overly familiar with weddings herself, is terribly afraid she will forget some type of special flower arrangement or have some type of terrible faux pas during her ceremony.
Thankfully, weddings are becoming more unique and it’s culturally acceptable to part from tradition - so I assured her that if something was unusually done at the wedding, most people would probably think it was on purpose.
While the ultimate wedding planner has been the staple for years, the paperback version is going high tech in the age of smart phones, Facebook and Twitter (hence the reason I’m writing about weddings). Instead of toting around a bulky planner with notes scribbled in the margin, you can get reminder e-mails and use handy budget calculators.
Here’s a few wedding related sites that friends have recommended:
TheKnot.com
The Knot offers all of the planner elements (To-do list, budget calculator, guest list and registry) with a social networking twist. There’s a community and Facebook page to connect with other bride-to-be’s. You can also create your own wedding page to show to friends and family that includes your story, photos and wedding details. Plus, there are quizzes and thousands of photo ideas to use for inspiration. Requires free registration to access most of the content.
WedPlan.com
While not as comprehensive as The Knot, WedPlan.com is a good compliment and takes things a step farther. You can search by zip code and the site will show you vendors and bridal shows in your area (Note: The site focuses mostly on Wisconsin and Illinois but does branch out into Minnesota and Iowa). There are also planning worksheets that include garments and measurements for attendants and a wedding day checklist.
OneStopWeddingPlanner.com
If you have a general idea what you want and simply want an efficient way to organize and plan, I like the One Stop Wedding Planner. There are spreadsheets and sections for everything including the guest list, registries, floor plans, music, gifts/favors, transportation, food, the wedding party… There’s also a handy wedding glossary. For example - if your florist starts talking about an oasis for the flower arrangement - it’s in the glossary.
KWWL.com
I couldn’t help it! I can’t talk about online resources without showcasing my own Web site! Seriously though, we do have a great wedding page. Every week there is a feature wedding. You can see photos and read about a real wedding to get some inspiration. You can also ask questions of Carley, the resident wedding expert, and get some money saving tips. It’s not the ultimate planning guide, but another good resource.
If you know of other online wedding essentials - leave a comment!
-jj
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This post was written by jjarvis on April 13, 2009